Our family in the process of designing a new home called "Vrindhavanam", on the process i started researching on homes, interiors etc...We had done 75 interior projects in Bangalore so the interior aspects were not new to us! But constructing a new home is! Now on the process of this wandering i came across this beautiful home which reminded me the word "YOGAM" In malayalam "thalayileruthu" enum paraym. So let me come to the incident directly. This home i loved small, beautiful,greenery around, tharavadu style. I saw it once from far.Wanting to see it once again one day i dropped there with my husband,Rajeev Krishna.
I saw the gate was locked.Suddenly an old gentleman came out , he smiled at me. That's all i was inside his home with Rajeev for a cup of tea.My intention was to get inside and see the next door home."That home is beautiful ",I told him, he replied "Yes but nobody stays there" I was wondering why in such a beautiful home nobody stays!.Then this man's brother too joined in our conversation.They were two brothers un-married staying together. He told me that this home was a beautiful tharavadu of ancient times, they redesigned the tharavadu.But only for pujas people come here,other wise nobody stays here, its locked. He smiled and told me " Vededuthal pora thamasikan yogam venam" (In english it means " There is no point in taking a home u should have the luck and destiny to stay there!) This dialoge struck my mind. He said that i could call and go someother day to see the interiors he will buy and keep the keys .We smiled and i took some pictures from the exterior angles.As i said good bye to him, he told me "Old tharavad na there are temples snakes and powers around , we need to be careful" I smiled and came of.On the way back i thought about the word-"Yogam,destiny luck" .Many times however confident and intelligent we are with life and ourselves,some things happen JUST LIKE THAT!!!!! There are some other forces that controls that right!!! We human beings are a unit of natures creation.But our arrogance to go against nature many times will come back to us in different style!!!! Jokingly one friend told me " Whats a point to be just married, you need destiny to have a loving life partner and a beautiful family life! " Certain things in life happens if we are destined for them to happen! But we have one thing in our control to be calm and happy and to manage anything with total surrender and acceptance.But the coincidence is that the MOMENT YOU SURRENDER TO THE NATURE COMPLETLY NATURE TAKES CARE OF YOU!!!!! I remember the quote of Paulo Colo, in the book Alchemist" If you mind is pure and you focus on your entity, you love something purely and sincerely, destiny will give that to you" I have got lots of things in life with this attitude!!!I love this design of the home completely, now let's see! At least the year did not end , so there is hope, for my beautiful home design with the name "Vrindavanam"! Nature is smarter, so never use your smartness to hurt another human-being or living being. And never think that being cunning and trying to posses other people's things will reach you any where in life!!Go with the tune of nature, listening to your inner-voice,take life slow and beautiful, THERE IS A GREATER FORCE THERE WHATEVER NAME YOU CALL THAT!!!!
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