Being a women was a very magical experience as a child,cousin,sister, wife,mother,lover,Manager,Trainer!!!!!!.I enjoyed being a women completely But the challenges of being a women was also really high.
As a child was reminded that i cannot speak loudly as a girl child.Was scolded made alone in relatives circle and questioned, when i expressed honestly that i was in love . Was really confused about pranayam then, because it was a beautiful feeling that came naturally without any expectation to a childhood friend,my innocence and honesty was attacked and questioned especially by the women of the family.I felt quite hurt when a close aunt of mine Beenaunty took the initiative to isolate and hurt me in public from my 24th year till today,for the simple reason that i loved and i married her sisters son, I think i was hurted as a women in my childhood more by women than by men.I was shocked that the importance and greed for money ,position and power could make a women torture a women so politically and with so much of cruelty and wickedness.
With all challenges let me remind i loved being a women.Studied more ,read more and worked harder to retain my originality,creativity, courage,honesty and identity. Got married stood through all cruelty of the aunt and her family,though it was really tough .
Did my MBA, and i thought that education and job would help me face the challenges .Went to Bangalore,joined an MNC,was shocked to find women sell their identity,body and character for positions and fame.Still wondered am i stupid girl from the village????Tried to fight for values ,identity and quality at the corporate too. but found that the beauty of the power was really powerful influence.I had strong men to support me.But here again women was the greatest challenge i faced because i was a challenge to their beauty and power. I started thinking should i work on my beauty and power to strategically manage these women. Values was something i saw degrading in society i was hurt,
My husband reminded me,how long will you fight with the people for values , cant you focus on your life and live happily.But then i became a mother and i realized my inner natural strength of sacrifice ,patience,love , passion creativity and intellect.I decided whatever i will not compromise on my values and skills.
15 years of profession still met only very few women with real character and skills.The women were more interested in using her skills and identity to pull down another women. If only we women would support each other genuinely to grow as real women.There is a huge power of nature inside the women ,if she focus on Love,Trust and Respect for her friend women, that itself will change this world!.I still sincerely love being a women,because i am meeting more beautiful women too with time, I LOVE BEING A WOMEN,IN-SPITE OF ALL THE CHALLENGES WOMEN GAVE ME MOST IN MY LIFE BECAUSE THESE CHALLENGES ONLY MADE ME A STRONGER WITH TIME.But going through them for the first time was scary.IF YOU SINCERELY LOVE BEING A WOMEN IF YOU CANT HELP ANOTHER WOMEN PLEASE DON'T TROUBLE ANOTHER WOMEN,IS MY GENUINE REQUEST.Women look deep inside you there is a powerhouse of natures creativity love and intellect hidden inside you, use them to make this world a better place.There is more to life than property acquisitions ,power,name and politics.
I LOVE BEING A WOMEN STILL,BECAUSE with time i had to sharpen my skills and character to face the tougher challenges, and i discovered that power inside me though more meditation and skill development.And quite happy to be associated with real beautiful women too!!!
As a child was reminded that i cannot speak loudly as a girl child.Was scolded made alone in relatives circle and questioned, when i expressed honestly that i was in love . Was really confused about pranayam then, because it was a beautiful feeling that came naturally without any expectation to a childhood friend,my innocence and honesty was attacked and questioned especially by the women of the family.I felt quite hurt when a close aunt of mine Beenaunty took the initiative to isolate and hurt me in public from my 24th year till today,for the simple reason that i loved and i married her sisters son, I think i was hurted as a women in my childhood more by women than by men.I was shocked that the importance and greed for money ,position and power could make a women torture a women so politically and with so much of cruelty and wickedness.
With all challenges let me remind i loved being a women.Studied more ,read more and worked harder to retain my originality,creativity, courage,honesty and identity. Got married stood through all cruelty of the aunt and her family,though it was really tough .
Did my MBA, and i thought that education and job would help me face the challenges .Went to Bangalore,joined an MNC,was shocked to find women sell their identity,body and character for positions and fame.Still wondered am i stupid girl from the village????Tried to fight for values ,identity and quality at the corporate too. but found that the beauty of the power was really powerful influence.I had strong men to support me.But here again women was the greatest challenge i faced because i was a challenge to their beauty and power. I started thinking should i work on my beauty and power to strategically manage these women. Values was something i saw degrading in society i was hurt,
My husband reminded me,how long will you fight with the people for values , cant you focus on your life and live happily.But then i became a mother and i realized my inner natural strength of sacrifice ,patience,love , passion creativity and intellect.I decided whatever i will not compromise on my values and skills.
15 years of profession still met only very few women with real character and skills.The women were more interested in using her skills and identity to pull down another women. If only we women would support each other genuinely to grow as real women.There is a huge power of nature inside the women ,if she focus on Love,Trust and Respect for her friend women, that itself will change this world!.I still sincerely love being a women,because i am meeting more beautiful women too with time, I LOVE BEING A WOMEN,IN-SPITE OF ALL THE CHALLENGES WOMEN GAVE ME MOST IN MY LIFE BECAUSE THESE CHALLENGES ONLY MADE ME A STRONGER WITH TIME.But going through them for the first time was scary.IF YOU SINCERELY LOVE BEING A WOMEN IF YOU CANT HELP ANOTHER WOMEN PLEASE DON'T TROUBLE ANOTHER WOMEN,IS MY GENUINE REQUEST.Women look deep inside you there is a powerhouse of natures creativity love and intellect hidden inside you, use them to make this world a better place.There is more to life than property acquisitions ,power,name and politics.
I LOVE BEING A WOMEN STILL,BECAUSE with time i had to sharpen my skills and character to face the tougher challenges, and i discovered that power inside me though more meditation and skill development.And quite happy to be associated with real beautiful women too!!!
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