TOUGHNESS TRAINS US TO BE PREPARED FOR THE ULTIMATE-DEATH

               " Last week was a tough week for me at , work" I told Rajeev krishna, my husband. I think according to horoscope my time is little bad, i am being blamed at work for things i have not done. I expected a consoling dialogue from my husband. As i  was patiently waiting for a good consoling dialogue from my husband, he shocked me by his answer.
      He replied very softly and firmly  " Priya Sivadas you know Gandhiji was killed and Subash chandra bose was treated very badly, they were great people who did so much of sacrifices for the country, com-on if they can go through bad times, shutting their mouth, why cant you???? In life sometimes when our time is bad  and people treat us badly we might have to just go through it!!!!" NOW THIS MADE ME THINKING.

                          
                     Though  i thought my god what happened to my childhood friend and husband Rajeev Krishna, thought about the words that he said. Very true when life is tough some times when people treat us badly we have to be silent and just pray!!
                                  Then i spoke to my mother my state of mind and also told her that i have enough proof with me to spoil the life of the person who is troubling my life and she replies " Priya, don't treat people badly, because they treat you badly.  Just relax leave it to nature and god. The person who troubles you also has a family, how bad would the family feel if they know the truth?" I asked " Ama so you don't feel bad the person treats your daughter badly? " She replied " Priya , i am 62 years in this world, i trust god to that heights in my life , those who do bad are answerable to god and nature, let us not waist our life correcting and humiliating others, focus on your duty and the moments of life , i am happy the way my daughter is, and i trust completely that she is protected. The tough times you go through in life will teach you to be more humble and closer to god, and also make you realize, how you should handle Power,Position and money , when it comes to you"

                      
                                                       I really felt lucky that i am surrounded by a great husband and a wonderful mother, who is accepting the life as it is. And trust the nature and reality so much. I think these two people ,prevented me from taking revenge on a person who troubled me so much unethically. Some times the love, care and courage we get from home makes a real sense to awaken the wisdom to live in a enlightening manner. Life is more than Position, Power and Money, if you have these and still you have to destroy another human to be happy then who are U?

              So i am learning the grace of the toughness of life and learning to accept it, trusting nature!!

    The tougher the life the stronger we become,  when we react against the wrong things our legs may be washed away for a moment, that is okay. If we don't dare in life , then our identity will be lost for ever, hence dare to react when injustice happens, even if you are alone. Retain your identity and individuality, don't die everyday, live every day and die once bravely!!!

WOMAN - LADIES OF THE WORLD ,PLEASE " BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE"

LADIES OF THE WORLD ,PLEASE " BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE" I JUST SAW THIS PROVERB IN A ADVERTISEMENT TODAY!!!  , and this blog came in my mind!

Woman we are powerful we play different roles in life, especially as a daughter, sister, wife and mother!!!
 All about a WOMAN ..

When she is quiet,
millions of things are
running in her mind
When she is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply

When she stares at you
she is wondering
why she loves you so much

in spite of being taken for granted.
When she calls you everyday,
she wants to know how you are doing.

When she Sm's you everyday
she wants you to reply at least once

When she says I love you, she means it
When she says I miss you,
no one in this world can miss you more than her

When she says I will stand by you,
she will stand by you like a rock

Ladies are always special
She is said to be the 8th wonder
She is always a priceless treasure

Never hurt her or take
her wrong or for granted..

               We need to develop as more wonderful lady's at work and society also. A woman is known for her wisdom, grace and love. Let us use that at work and the development of the people around us, the country and the world. My dear women out there ,please don't compromise on your values and culture of the growth in the professional life or status. We should never compromise on our values, we need to be soft , firm and strong. 

     Life is only once face the challenges strongly. Be firm when you have to , people may call it arrogance, but you need to be clear about what you do. Stand up, even if you are alone for your rights, don't allow the goddess and the goodness  inside you die everyday!!Please

TRUST THE GOD INSIDE YOU

                                       I was going through a confusion at the work place. As i was relaxing on the problem a friend told me : " Priya if you feel you are right surrender to the nature and leave the rest to god" .though i was angry after doing this i could accept the reality and be my true self.

     On the process of learning more about me and the conceptualizing the the problem i was in i learn few lessons:
1) How much ever knowledgeable we humans are we don't decide the sunrise or sunset or tsunami!

2) What you give you will get back.

3) Never use the  power or position you have to manipulate only your self growth.

4) When problems come beyond your control or understanding , surrender to nature trust in god.

5) Nature has a plan for us, trust that.

 6) At times silence is the best tool.

7) If people mysteriously comes to help ,you when you are in a problem , that is the NATURE'S SIGNAL THAT SHE IS THERE FOR YOU!!!!


                      As  i was thinking of all this i reached my dance class today after my morning walk. I love dancing my way out especially when i am so focused with nature.Suddenly , i saw a baby lying near the lap of my  lady who is 3 months old burst to laughter, looking at the dance. I felt beautiful and wonderful looking  at that innocent beautiful creation of god. An i wondered if energy is communication, and weather we humans are really blessed to speak without words to this level. My new area of research COMMUNICATION WITHOUT WORDS!!!!!. Trusting the god inside me to face problems and grow beyond problems for a greater reason of life.TRUST FRIENDS TRUST THE GOD INSIDE YOU!!!