"Orimuzhi" this movie made me write this blog on marriage. From childhood i was really scared of the word marriage, especially because people said in the village at mahe , that we will loose our full freedom. This Malayalam movie "Orimuzhi"shows how clearly, the parent's relationship influences our style ,of relating to our spouses too.
Many times fear is a major factor, that spoils a relation in marriage, especially of loosing the partner. And to be honest people say its difficult after marriage i wonder still why!!!!!. Personally i have many fights in my marriage but i love my life partner, a love beyond the necessity of the WORD MARRIAGE. I love the climax of the movie "Ozhimuri" where the heroine divorces for her dignity, individuality, freedom and respect in life, but still she takes care of her husband as his best friend in the old age!!!! .The way the director has directed the matured dignified love in the end is beautiful. You require genuine love to love beyond the words and the reasons!!!
Marriage is a beautiful relationship if there is mutual respect, love,transparency and dignity between the partners. With the creative growth of the two individuals with time the relationship become wonderful every moment , for every moment there is a creative positive change in both the partners. Most of the time a relationship is carried for just to be secured, there starts the boredom of marriage!!!!!.
With the decision to have children comes the climax of the marriage, for we are inspiring our own creations to be enlightened in life. I feel being the the mother a woman, gets the real power to be the godess. Any relationship there should be love in it ,i mean genuine love. The moment a marriage is over there is a cold relation between the spouses!!!!. See your life partners new face every moment and every day !!!Inspire each other to live beautifully and creatively!!!Let marriage be not just a word but a magical relation for your mysterious side to evolve and enlighten!!!"If your love is true and genuine, magics do happen in any relations I MEAN IN GENUINE RELATIONS BEYOND THE WORD MARRIAGE!!!!
Many times fear is a major factor, that spoils a relation in marriage, especially of loosing the partner. And to be honest people say its difficult after marriage i wonder still why!!!!!. Personally i have many fights in my marriage but i love my life partner, a love beyond the necessity of the WORD MARRIAGE. I love the climax of the movie "Ozhimuri" where the heroine divorces for her dignity, individuality, freedom and respect in life, but still she takes care of her husband as his best friend in the old age!!!! .The way the director has directed the matured dignified love in the end is beautiful. You require genuine love to love beyond the words and the reasons!!!
Marriage is a beautiful relationship if there is mutual respect, love,transparency and dignity between the partners. With the creative growth of the two individuals with time the relationship become wonderful every moment , for every moment there is a creative positive change in both the partners. Most of the time a relationship is carried for just to be secured, there starts the boredom of marriage!!!!!.
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
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